Camden Rece Matthew Soldier Death, Obituary – The community of Tahlequah, along with family and friends across Oklahoma, is mourning the loss of a remarkable young man Camden Matthew Soldier. Born on January 26, 2009, Cam was a bright, charismatic teenager whose life was tragically cut short on May 28, 2026. His passing in Park Hill, Oklahoma, has left a deep ache in the hearts of those who loved him, but his memory continues to shine brightly through the lives he touched.
Cam came into this world with a spirit eager to embrace life. As the youngest of five children, he cultivated a love for the outdoors, especially water and travel, which became hallmarks of his adventurous personality. His early years in Chouteau laid the foundation for lifelong friendships and meaningful connections. Teachers like Mrs. Shelle Messer played a vital role in shaping his childhood, and he often spoke of her with admiration, expressing how much she meant to him.
After moving to Tahlequah in the summer following eighth grade, Cam began a new chapter at Keys High School. He quickly settled into his new environment, forming bonds with classmates and teachers alike. His favorite teacher, Mr. Darrell, and his new brother from another mother, Nehemiah Begay, became important parts of his life, supporting him through his teenage years. Cam’s personality was a unique blend of humor, kindness, and determination traits that made him a cherished friend and family member.
Throughout his teenage years, Cam’s passions grew. His love for music and road trips became defining aspects of his identity. Many of his happiest moments were spent on the road with his close friend Abby Goad, creating memories that would last a lifetime. His independence blossomed when Bill and Wendi Worthington helped him purchase his first truck, symbolizing his journey toward adulthood and self-reliance.
Cam’s aspirations led him to pursue a GED and enroll at Oklahoma Technical College, where he aimed to become an HVAC technician. Under the guidance of his instructor, Mr. Jimmy, Cam gained confidence and a sense of purpose. His dedication to his future was inspiring, and he eagerly embraced the opportunities ahead.
Camden was a young man with a big heart, a contagious smile, and many talents. He loved his family dearly, especially sharing his mother’s delicious fry bread a small but meaningful detail that reflected his love for home and tradition. His siblings and friends remember him as a quirky, charismatic soul who brought light into every space he entered.
Cam is survived by his mother, April Dreadfulwater, and stepfather, Cody Sparks; his father, Matthew Soldier; his siblings Lauran, Trent, Andrew, and Matthew II; his brother from another mother, Nehemiah Begay; and numerous relatives and friends who will carry his memory forward. His life was a testament to resilience, love, and the pursuit of happiness.
A funeral service to honor Cam’s life will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Friday, June 5, 2026, at the Chouteau First Baptist Church. A wake service will take place the night before at Shipman’s Funeral Home in Pryor. Friends and family are invited to share their stories, love, and memories of Cam, ensuring his spirit lives on.
While his passing leaves a void, Cam’s legacy of joy, love, and determination will continue to inspire all who knew him. Rest peacefully, Cam—you will forever be in our hearts.
